Our Vancouver singles events provide a fun and relaxed way to make authentic connections.

Experience a unique, modern social experience and discover many singles in one night.

How We’re Different

We don’t believe in awkward speed dating or dull, singles “mixers”
Our events were designed for the modern single so you wont be sent through a treadmill of awkward one-on-one “dates” or pressured to approach others.

Learn 8 reasons to attend our events instead of Vancouver speed dating events.
Learn now →

Experience a modern way to meet … so you'll need to bring your phone
We embrace technology and innovation. Your phone is an important part of the experience and used to connect you with others in a unique and fun way.
Connect through fun and relaxed games
Games are a powerful tool for getting to know others. We play the latest party, classic, trivia, and even custom games designed for the SRSVP experience.
Discover chemistry with others in a unique and authentic way
We combine aspects of social psychology & mystery to create a unique experience that increases bonding and attraction with others.

Next Experience

Adventure Games Night

With consideration to the Government’s measures to combat the COVID-19 outbreak and in the interest of our attendees health, the safety of others, and our hosts well being, we have made the difficult decision to reschedule this event. You can read our official statement here.

To those interested in attending a future live event, please add yourself to our Club List here. Get exclusive invites, special ticket offers, and other bonuses the public won’t see.

  • Postponed - New date to be confirmed
  • Steamworks (Gastown Location), 375 Water Street, Vancouver BC
  • Ages 28 - 43
  • Event Theme: LIVE-MATCHED

What’s included?

  • Your personal live-matching experience (one-of-a-kind, patent pending)
  • SUPER FUN games
  • Post-event messaging
  • Appetizers (YUM!)
  • Prizes


What’s NOT included?

  • Your fully-charged smartphone which you will use to view and add your guests.
  • A cash or credit bar is available for drinks (drinks are not included in your admission).

What's the average size of a Secret RSVP Vancouver event?
Secret RSVP events are fully-hosted, large-scale events. The size varies and can be between 30 to more than 50 singles per event, with close to equal gender ratio.

When can I see the profiles of other guests going to the event?
You can only view the profiles of event attendees once you are checked-in by our event host at the event. This also keeps your profile private and visible only to those committed to attending the event.

How does messaging work with the event app?
After the event ends, messaging will be unlocked in the app (30 - 60 minutes after) so you can start sending messages to those you met at the event and continue the social experience.

What should I bring to the event?
Please bring your smartphone, fully-charged!

What's the dress code?
Smart casual always works!

More questions? Read our Vancouver Events FAQ at the bottom of the page.

Booking Confirmation
You will receive an email confirmation from Eventbrite shortly after booking your tickets. If you cannot find the message in your inbox, please check your spam folder or contact info@srsvp.com for assistance (do not make a second booking). Please review your booking carefully before checking out.

The Experience
This is an indoor experience which will take place in either a secret or revealed venue location.

Ticket Types
All tickets are issued as Standard entries and include a general admission to the experience. When tickets sell out, a waitlist will be opened.

Refund Policy
Refunds up to 7 days before event. Eventbrite's fee is nonrefundable.

The Live-Matched Experience

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Secret RSVP’s live-matched Vancouver singles events provide a unique and modern experience designed for creating real-life authentic connections.

Our events are a fun, relaxed and unique way to discover many singles in one night.

How it Works

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CHOOSE GUESTS SECRETLY

At the event, use your phone to secretly add those you’re interested to meet. No one will know you’re interested.
  • EXPERIENCE ONLINE DATING IN REVERSE. You choose, then meet and discover chemistry before interests are known.
  • LIVING PROFILES. You get to see the profile and then interact with the real LIVE person.
  • MEDIUM to LARGE-SCALE EVENTS. We have many singles to choose and meet in one night.
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GET MATCHED

We’ll match everyone LIVE to those you’re connected with and send you to smaller, intimate groups for games and activities!
  • WHO WILL YOU MEET? In your groups you'll meet singles you’re secretly matched with.
  • IT'S MYSTERIOUS. How your group is connected to each other is secret.
  • MYSTERY GROUPS. You'll meet 3 different mystery groups throughout the night.
Secret RSVP Singles Events At Dinner Party

DISCOVER CHEMISTRY

Meet and discover new authentic connections through fun and interactive games.
  • WHO WILL YOU DISCOVER? Many leave our events with newly formed romantic, social, and even networking connections.
  • RELAXED AND FUN. We maximize the fun and keep things cool and relaxed so you can be yourself when meeting others.
  • FUN GROUP ACTIVITIES. You'll play fun games and activities specially designed for the Secret RSVP experience to discover others in an authentic way.

How the App Works

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Vancouver Hosts

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Lisa
Vancouver Event Host
"I’m a creative and strategic professional with a passion for meeting new people. As a host for Secret RSVP, I get to help people experience a new way to find love, all while having fun. The best part about being a Secret RSVP host is seeing our guests’ cooperative and competitive natures emerge, all while creating new connections!"

Secret RSVP Partner Cities

Testimonial by WASHINGTON D.C.
WASHINGTON D.C.
Maliaka Mealy, DC Fray / United Fray Events Producer
"Secret RSVP was an amazing value add to our daters experience. The games were a brilliant way for daters to shake nervous jitters. Secret RSVP is exactly what dating deserves!"
Testimonial by CHARLOTTE N.C.
CHARLOTTE N.C.
Amanda Rose, Dating Boutique Inc
"The event went great and everyone had so much fun! I got some great feedback!"
Testimonial by CALGARY, AB
CALGARY, AB
Cory Harasym, Small Group Pastor
"Secret RSVP is a fantastic way to help break the ice for any medium-large scale social event. Technology, in the right hands, can be used to bring people together and help form relationships in real life, and this concept absolutely does this."

In the Media

Secret RSVP in the media

Vancouver Singles Events FAQ

You can expect a fun, relaxed and modern way to meet many singles in one evening over games and group-based activities – all within a pressure-free environment. While we won’t promise you’ll meet the “one” (although people have) – you can be sure you’ll have a great time and make meaningful connections.

Whether you’re an introvert, extrovert, shy or out-going, we attract all types of professional singles. We also see people come back to our events so we must be doing something right. We think it’s largely due to the way we designed Secret RSVP events to be a low-pressure way to connect IRL and that’s something we all need to do more of these days.

Let technology do the work for you! When you secretly add those you’re interested to meet at a live event, our patent-pending live-matching algorithm springs into action and assigns EVERYONE into smaller, more intimate groups for a round of SUPER-FUN games designed to help you discover personalities. There are usually 3 rounds of live-matching small groups per event.

Each of our events have specific ages but we do allow a 1 – 2 year leeway outside these ranges. If you’re outside this age range, please let us know your interest by joining our club list for future events in your age. 

Yes! Meeting new people can be nerve-wrecking. The extra moral support from friends can help (our hosts are great with helping you feel comfy too)! Your friends are welcome to come – just remember to create a unique profile for each person attending when purchasing your tickets, and be prepared to join different groups. 

Nope! We’re fully-electronic! Once you have registered for the event, we will have your registration details so there is no need to bring your printed ticket. 

Our unique and modern events are a natural attraction to the many sophisticated singles that call Vancouver home.

With its beautiful natural scenery, surrounded by the Rocky Mountains and Pacific ocean, Vancouver is truly one of the most beautiful places in the world to live.

Vancouver is well known for its diverse population with a large Asian mix (especially Hong Kong).

A great sports city and home to the Vancouver Canucks who nearly captured their first Stanley Cup in 2012.

We look forward to bringing a diverse mix of Vancouver singles together from a variety of professions, backgrounds, and personalities to connect at our events for many years to come.

Vancouver has some of the most modern and fun venues around.

As much as we love the wild vibe of this great city that doesn’t mean you’ll find our events nestled in some loud and crazy venues. Quite the contrary.

We aim for the right balance of noise levels so conversations can be enjoyed while keeping things fun and exciting.

We like to host our evening events in the most trendy parts of Vancouver such as Granville Street, Yaletown, or Gastown.

We’re always on the lookout for new venues and locations, so if you have some suggestions we are all ears.

Oh and one more thing … we do sometimes like to keep our venue locations secret just because we are after all all about keeping things that way 🙂

While we don’t want to harp on speed dating here as there are many pros to that method of meeting for some people, we do know it’s not for everyone and definitely not for us. Besides, there are Vancouver dating events of that style already available so if that’s something you enjoy then we won’t stand in your way. But, if you’d rather do something unique, fun, modern and more interesting then you’ve come to the right place.

Here are 8 reasons why you should attend our events instead of Vancouver speed dating.

We created Secret RSVP out of a passion to help everyone be social, and hopefully discover chemistry secretly. Therefore, our vision is for Secret RSVP events to be in every corner of this beautiful planet for people of all ages. For now, we are limited by demand but with your help in spreading the word about us, we know that our vision will be fulfilled someday. In the meantime, if you do not see any events within your desired age range, please let us know you’re interested in Vancouver dating events and add yourself here.

The best way to know what new things we have planned is to get on our Secret RSVP Club list. We’ll notify you as soon as tickets are available for our Vancouver singles events!

The time has come to experience a new way to meet singles in Vancouver.

We’ve actually been featured in a few places which you can read on our media page.

Not seeing events for your age? Let us know your interested by joining our list here