Secret RSVP’s Toronto singles events provide a fun and relaxed way to make authentic connections.

Experience a unique, modern social experience and discover many singles in one night.

How We’re Different

We don’t believe in awkward speed dating or dull, singles “mixers”
Our events were designed for the modern single so you wont be sent through a treadmill of awkward one-on-one “dates” or pressured to approach others.
Experience a modern way to meet … so you'll need to bring your phone
We embrace technology and innovation. Your phone is an important part of the experience and used to connect you with others in a unique and fun way.
Connect through fun and relaxed games
Games are a powerful tool for getting to know others. We play the latest party, classic, trivia, and even custom games designed for the SRSVP experience.
Discover chemistry with others in a unique and authentic way
We combine aspects of social psychology & mystery to create a unique experience that increases bonding and attraction with others.

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Adventure Games Night

With consideration to the Government’s measures to combat the COVID-19 outbreak and in the interest of our attendees health, the safety of others, and our hosts well being, we have made the difficult decision to reschedule this event. You can read our official statement here.

To those interested in trying out our new virtual live-matched events in Toronto and area, click here.

To those interested in attending a future live event, please add yourself to our Club List here. Get exclusive invites, special ticket offers, and other bonuses the public won’t see.

  • Postponed - New date to be confirmed
  • Assembly Chef's Hall, Toronto, ON
  • Ages 28 - 43
  • Event Type: Live-Matched

What’s included?

  • Your personal live-matching experience (one-of-a-kind, patent pending)
  • SUPER FUN games
  • Post-event messaging
  • Appetizers (YUM!)
  • Prizes

What’s NOT included?

  • Your fully-charged smartphone which you will use to view and add your guests.
  • A cash or credit bar is available for drinks (drinks are not included in your admission).

What's the average size of a Secret RSVP event?
Secret RSVP events are fully-hosted, large-scale events. The size varies and can be between 30 to more than 50 singles per event, with close to equal gender ratio.

When can I see the profiles of other guests going to the event?
You can only view the profiles of event attendees once you are checked-in by our event host at the event. This also keeps your profile private and visible only to those committed to attending the event.

How does messaging work with the event app?
After the event ends, messaging will be unlocked (30 - 60 minutes after) in the app so you can start sending messages to those you met at the event and continue the social experience.

What should I bring to the event?
Please bring your smartphone, fully-charged!

What's the dress code?
Smart casual always works!

More questions? Read our Toronto Singles Events FAQ at the bottom of the page.

Booking Confirmation
You will receive an email confirmation from Eventbrite shortly after booking your tickets. If you cannot find the message in your inbox, please check your spam folder or contact for assistance (do not make a second booking). Please review your booking carefully before checking out.

The Experience
This is an indoor experience which will take place in either a secret or revealed venue location.

Ticket Types
All tickets are issued as Standard entries and include a general admission to the experience. When tickets sell out, a waitlist will be opened.

Refund Policy
Refunds up to 7 days before event. Eventbrite's fee is nonrefundable.

Ticket Info

  • Gender Balanced
  • Limited Seating
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The Live-Matched Experience

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How it Works

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At the event, use your phone to secretly add those you’re interested to meet. No one will know you’re interested.
  • EXPERIENCE ONLINE DATING IN REVERSE. You choose, then meet and discover chemistry before interests are known.
  • LIVING PROFILES. You get to see the profile and then interact with the real LIVE person.
  • MEDIUM to LARGE-SCALE EVENTS. We have many singles to choose and meet in one night.
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We’ll match everyone LIVE to those you’re connected with and send you to smaller, intimate groups for games and activities!
  • WHO WILL YOU MEET? In your groups you'll meet singles you’re secretly matched with.
  • IT'S MYSTERIOUS. How your group is connected to each other is secret.
  • MYSTERY GROUPS. You'll meet 3 different mystery groups throughout the night.
Secret RSVP Singles Events At Dinner Party


Meet and discover new authentic connections through fun and interactive games.
  • WHO WILL YOU DISCOVER? Many leave our events with newly formed romantic, social, and even networking connections.
  • RELAXED AND FUN. We maximize the fun and keep things cool and relaxed so you can be yourself when meeting others.
  • FUN GROUP ACTIVITIES. You'll play fun games and activities specially designed for the Secret RSVP experience to discover others in an authentic way.

How the App Works

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Toronto Hosts

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Andrew Miller
Toronto Event Host
Charming, big & black with a love for sneakers, sports & snacks. I just want to make people smile, and as your host for the evening, it’s my job to put people at ease from the very beginning. Life is so much more fun when you have the right person to share your experiences with. We all know finding that special someone isn’t easy, but don’t stress, we’ve got you covered! My goal is to make sure that anyone comes to any of our events has an amazing time interacting with some fabulous people, while having a few laughs along the way. Let us at Secret RSVP take you on a fun-filled adventure for the night that might change your life forever. It’ll be a whole new world, minus the magic carpet ride and genie.
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Esther Cyrus
Toronto Event Host
I am a 26 year old Event Coordinator by day and a serial snacker by night! But on my spare time I host the Secret RSVP events! And I love it! Being a host for Secret RSVP gives me the opportunity to help people, not only to possibly find love, but to help them open up and learn more about their likes and dislikes. It is a wonderful feeling to know you've helped to create a fun and worthwhile experience for someone else. And trust me it is worthwhile!

Secret RSVP Partner Cities

Testimonial by WASHINGTON D.C.
Maliaka Mealy, DC Fray / United Fray Events Producer
"Secret RSVP was an amazing value add to our daters experience. The games were a brilliant way for daters to shake nervous jitters. Secret RSVP is exactly what dating deserves!"
Testimonial by CHARLOTTE N.C.
Amanda Rose, Dating Boutique Inc
"The event went great and everyone had so much fun! I got some great feedback!"
Testimonial by CALGARY, AB
Cory Harasym, Small Group Pastor
"Secret RSVP is a fantastic way to help break the ice for any medium-large scale social event. Technology, in the right hands, can be used to bring people together and help form relationships in real life, and this concept absolutely does this."

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Toronto Singles Events FAQ

You can expect a fun, relaxed and modern way to meet many singles in one evening over games and group-based activities – all within a pressure-free environment. While we won’t promise you’ll meet the “one” (although people have) – you can be sure you’ll have a great time and make meaningful connections.

Whether you’re an introvert, extrovert, shy or out-going, we attract all types of professional singles. We also see people come back to our events so we must be doing something right. We think it’s largely due to the way we designed Secret RSVP events to be a low-pressure way to connect IRL and that’s something we all need to do more of these days.

Let technology do the work for you! When you secretly add those you’re interested to meet at a live event, our patent-pending live-matching algorithm springs into action and assigns EVERYONE into smaller, more intimate groups for a round of SUPER-FUN games designed to help you discover personalities. There are usually 3 rounds of live-matching small groups per event.

Each of our events have specific ages but we do allow a 1 – 2 year leeway outside these ranges. If you’re outside this age range, please let us know your interest by joining our club list for future events in your age. 

Yes! Meeting new people can be nerve-wrecking. The extra moral support from friends can help (our hosts are great with helping you feel comfy too)! Your friends are welcome to come – just remember to create a unique profile for each person attending when purchasing your tickets, and be prepared to join different groups. 

Nope! We’re fully-electronic! Once you have registered for the event, we will have your registration details so there is no need to bring your printed ticket. 

Toronto is such a perfect fit for our events and truth be told, we could not wait to launch here. With its vibrant city life that includes some of the world’s finest restaurants, pubs and venues, Toronto is Canada’s “city that never sleeps”.

Secret RSVP events are designed to be rich in theme – right down to what we name our tables where we invite attendees to meet and interact. We do this because it not only creates great talking points but also gives our guests a chance to tell their “story” of how they met their special someone. Imagine attending one of Secret RSVP’s travel-themed events and meeting your special someone at a table named after an exotic place, such as the Cayman Islands. You can relive your experience with “I met her in the Cayman Islands!”

With Toronto’s unique culture and eclectic venues, we have so many options to work with when it comes to bringing flavour to our event themes. It’s like giving an artist a blank canvas and a diverse palette of colors.

The types of singles our events attract include a diverse mix of professions, backgrounds and personalities which is a reflection of the diversity that makes Toronto. We know that Torontonians love trying new things, are adventurous, and love meeting new people. In fact, we have been impressed with the curiosity and excitement with Secret RSVP’s new social concept amongst Toronto’s singles. In today’s singles scene, it is refreshing to see that singles in Toronto do want to meet real people and experience real connections.

The type of venue is an important part of our events experience so we select venues that are best for socializing and activities.

As for the neighborhoods we are particularly interested in, Toronto’s Entertainment District is where you might see a lot of our events in. Old Toronto, Queens Park in Yorkville and Little Italy, with their popular restaurants, pubs and fancy lounges, are also great options for Secret RSVP’s unique singles events.

We do keep the exact locations of our venues private and only reveal that to our registered guests to maintain the privacy of our members.

We also do this to maintain a degree of the mystery that has become lost from our lives. In a world that’s constantly revealing more and more of itself across social media,  we have fewer and fewer surprises left. There is something special about encountering the unexpected and not being able to be fully prepared for things that can happen naturally.

While some people may enjoy speed dating as one option for meeting new people, Secret RSVP does not offer speed dating events. In fact, because we perceive speed dating as being awkward, high-pressured and monotonous, we created Secret RSVP as a way to have fun and meet new people without the pressure. Besides, we tend to agree with Plato, who said that you can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation. So we build in lots of play into the Secret RSVP method. If speed dating is something you’re after, we’re certain you’ll find many Toronto dating events of that style readily available elsewhere. But, if you’d rather do something fun, modern and far more interesting then please stick around. We know you’ll be glad you did.

We created Secret RSVP out of a passion to help everyone be social, and hopefully discover chemistry secretly. Therefore, our vision is for Secret RSVP events to be in every corner of this beautiful planet for people of all ages. For now, we are limited by demand but with your help in spreading the word about us, we know that our vision will be fulfilled someday. In the meantime, if you do not see any events within your desired age range, please let us know you’re interested in Toronto dating events and add yourself here.

The best way to know what new things we have planned is to get on our Secret RSVP Club list. We’ll notify you as soon as tickets are available for our Toronto singles events!

The time has come to bring a new way to meet singles in Toronto and experience

We’ve actually been featured in a few places which you can read on our media page.

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