Toronto Singles Events

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Christmas Party Games Night!

DEC 5th @ 7:30PM | Location [Private] | Toronto, ON
This is a PRIVATE event organized through a Secret RSVP partner.

Come on out for an exciting evening of live-matched mystery at our Christmas Party Games Night! Throughout the night, you’ll be invited into small mystery groups with your secret connections to get to know them through fun and relaxed games.

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Halloween Social Games Night!

OCT 31st @ 7:30PM | Location [Private] | Toronto, ON

Come on out for an exciting evening of live-matched mystery at our Halloween Social Games Night! Throughout the night, you’ll be invited into small mystery groups with your secret connections to get to know them through a series of relaxing and interactive games. Oh, and *finger foods* are included (LOL!)

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Heroes & Villains Games Night!

OCT 3, 7:30 PM | Toronto, ON
Ages: 25-42

This will be an action-packed evening of fun, games and live-matched mystery themed around “Heroes & Villains”!

Through the night, you’ll be joined up with other EXTRAORDINARY and ELIGIBLE singles in teams you are secretly connected with.

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Escape Games Social Night!

SEP 12th @ 7PM | Location [Private] | Toronto, ON
This is a PRIVATE event organized through a Secret RSVP partner.

Come on out for an exciting evening of live-matching while getting to know others through escape-styled group games – all designed to help you get to know one another in a light and relaxed way. We expect many connections and friendships to be made after this night is over.

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Adventure Games & Mingle

THURSDAY, JUN 20, 7PM | The Peacock Public House | Toronto, ON
Ages: 25-45

Come on out for an action-packed evening of fun, games and live-matched mystery at our Adventure Games night Thursday, June 20! It’s all happening at the trendy Peacock Public House, an icon in the heart of College Street. We’re expecting many eligible adventure seekers genuinely interested to connect in real life and have fun 🙂

Ladies places left Sold Out
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Thanks to all who came out and the fine young (and eligible) ladies of the Somebody Date Us podcast who were among our guests at this event! 

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Movies & Travel Trivia Games

THURSDAY, APR 11, 7PM | Upscale downtown venue on Bloor (close to Bloor Station) | Toronto, ON
Ages: 25-45
Ladies places left Sold Out
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This event is SOLD OUT but tickets will be available to our next event in June!

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Toronto Launch Event

THURSDAY, MAR 7, 7PM | Upscale venue in Danforth/Greek Town area (revealed only to registered guests) | Toronto, ON
Ages: 28-45
Ladies places left 0 Sold Out
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This event is SOLD OUT but tickets will be available to our next event in May!

What can I expect at this event?

You can expect a fun, relaxed and modern way to meet around 40 – 50 singles in one evening over games and group-based activities – all within a pressure-free environment. While we won’t promise you’ll meet the “one” (although people have) – you can be sure you’ll have a great time and make meaningful connections.

What kinds of people attend these events?

Whether you’re an introvert, extrovert, shy or out-going, we attract all types of professional singles. We also see people come back to our events so we must be doing something right. We think it’s largely due to the way we designed Secret RSVP events to be a low-pressure way to connect IRL and that’s something we all need to do more of these days.

How is Secret RSVP different?

We don’t believe in awkward speed dating or dull, run-of-the-mill singles “mixers”

Our events were designed for the modern single so you wont be sent through a treadmill of awkward one on one “dates” or pressured to approach others.

We believe in a modern way to meet … so you’ll need to bring your phone.

We embrace technology and innovation. Many believe we need to throw our phones away in order to connect IRL (in real life) but that should not be necessary. Share an experience that’s a little bit different, that’s meant to help us all connect in a better way.

You get to know others through games & activities

“You Can Discover More About a Person in an Hour of Play than in a Year of Conversation” – Plato

In our game-style events, we run things like trivia games, card games (i.e. cards against humanity), Jenga truth or dare, tower-building, never-have-I-ever guys vs gals, and many others. Things that are light, fun and good for getting to know others.

We use psychology & mystery

There is a great deal of psychology behind Secret RSVP. One aspect that we’ve seen occur first hand at our events is the Uncertainty Principle. This happens when we are around people that may be interested in us or we are interested in them but we are uncertain. This heightens excitement and attraction.

What people told us after attending past events

“Thank you so much! When I was preparing to come this evening, I was feeling really anxious and worried. But the event really made me feel relaxed. The activities were great and I had no anxiety at all.”
Thank you for this event. I really like the concept and had a great time meeting new people.
What a fun event! I can't wait for the next one!
Thank you for this great idea and it was a fun night out! Who knows, I may get a match.
Great concept! It was fun! I liked meeting people in real life and the games made it fun.
Great event last Saturday! Keep up the great work.

How Secret RSVP  works

  1. Buy your event ticket. You will receive an email confirmation with details on the venue.
  2. One week before the event, we will send you details on how to create your profile for the event on the Secret RSVP app.
  3. At the event, check-in with our friendly hosts. You can then view the profiles of all guests in attendance on your smartphone.
  4. Add guests you are interested to meet to your secret guest list. After a large-group mingle, our proprietary algorithm matches you with others LIVE and sends you into 3 rounds of smaller groups for fun and interactive games and activities!
  5. How everyone is connected in each small group remains a mystery. You know who’s in your secret guest list… but who added you? Guess you’ll never know.
  6. After the event, you can continue your social experience by connecting with anyone you’ve met for a period of time through the Secret RSVP app.

What’s unique about Secret RSVP’s Toronto Singles Events?

Toronto is such a perfect fit for our events and truth be told, we could not wait to launch here. With its vibrant city life that includes some of the world’s finest restaurants, pubs and venues, Toronto is Canada’s “city that never sleeps”.

Secret RSVP events are designed to be rich in theme – right down to what we name our tables where we invite attendees to meet and interact. We do this because it not only creates great talking points but also gives our guests a chance to tell their “story” of how they met their special someone. Imagine attending one of Secret RSVP’s travel-themed events and meeting your special someone at a table named after an exotic place, such as the Cayman Islands. You can relive your experience with “I met her in the Cayman Islands!”

With Toronto’s unique culture and eclectic venues, we have so many options to work with when it comes to bringing flavour to our event themes. It’s like giving an artist a blank canvas and a diverse palette of colors.

The types of singles our events attract include a diverse mix of professions, backgrounds and personalities which is a reflection of the diversity that makes Toronto. We know that Torontonians love trying new things, are adventurous, and love meeting new people. In fact, we have been impressed with the curiosity and excitement with Secret RSVP’s new social concept amongst Toronto’s singles. In today’s singles scene, it is refreshing to see that singles in Toronto do want to meet real people and experience real connections.

In what areas and venues will you find our singles events in Toronto?

The type of venue is an important part of our events experience so we select venues that are best for socializing and activities.

As for the neighborhoods we are particularly interested in, Toronto’s Entertainment District is where you might see a lot of our events in. Old Toronto, Queens Park in Yorkville and Little Italy, with their popular restaurants, pubs and fancy lounges, are also great options for Secret RSVP’s unique singles events.

We do keep the exact locations of our venues private and only reveal that to our registered guests to maintain the privacy of our members.

We also do this to maintain a degree of the mystery that has become lost from our lives. In a world that’s constantly revealing more and more of itself across social media,  we have fewer and fewer surprises left. There is something special about encountering the unexpected and not being able to be fully prepared for things that can happen naturally.

Do we host Toronto speed dating events?

While some people may enjoy speed dating as one option for meeting new people, Secret RSVP does not offer speed dating events. In fact, because we perceive speed dating as being awkward, high-pressured and monotonous, we created Secret RSVP as a way to have fun and meet new people without the pressure. Besides, we tend to agree with Plato, who said that you can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation. So we build in lots of play into the Secret RSVP method. If speed dating is something you’re after, we’re certain you’ll find many Toronto dating events of that style readily available elsewhere. But, if you’d rather do something fun, modern and far more interesting then please stick around. We know you’ll be glad you did.

Will there be singles events for over 40-year-olds?

We created Secret RSVP out of a passion to help everyone be social, and hopefully discover chemistry secretly. Therefore, our vision is for Secret RSVP events to be in every corner of this beautiful planet for people of all ages. For now, we are limited by demand but with your help in spreading the word about us, we know that our vision will be fulfilled someday. In the meantime, if you do not see any events within your desired age range, please let us know you’re interested in Toronto dating events and add yourself here.

What new things are planned for upcoming events in Toronto?

The best way to know what new things we have planned is to get on our Secret RSVP Club list. We’ll notify you as soon as tickets are available for our Toronto singles events!

The time has come to bring a new way to meet singles in Toronto and experience

Real People. Real Connections.

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