Here you’ll find the answers to our most frequently asked questions. If your question is not answered, please contact us.

There is nothing out there that lets you go online in an offline event, and meet other singles in-person. It’s like having the best of both worlds! You can use the Secret RSVP patent-pending app on your personal phone at a live event to add other guests you are interested to meet to your secret guestlist. The app then matches you to a few rounds of small groups with other guests based on everyone’s secret guestlist. No one knows how everyone is connected, which adds to the mystery and excitement of every event.

In the small groups, you get to enjoy fun, pressure-free activities where you can discover chemistry secretly. At the end of the event, you get to review those you have met and if the feeling is mutual, contacts are shared.

Secret RSVP is a completely offline experience. This means attendee profiles can only be seen when you are checked-in at the event by your event host. Then, you can browse profiles with your smartphone or enjoy the added benefit of “seeing” them in-person at the event.

Secret RSVP’s algorithm takes into consideration a number of things such as the attendees you add to your secret guest list; those who added you; mutual connections; along with many other “secret” ingredients.

No. Secret RSVP events allow you to secretly choose whom you are interested to meet by adding them in your private guestlist.

To increase your chances of meeting as many people in your guestlist as possible, you should add at least three persons to your secret guestlist. The Secret RSVP algorithm will generate small group connections based on everyone’s secret guestlist. In your small group, you will not know how everyone is connected – they may be in your small group because you have added them to your guestlist; or they have added you in their guestlist; or they may be in the guestlist of someone who is in your secret guestlist! Either way, no one knows how everyone is connected, which of course, adds an exciting element of mystery in the overall experience! So the more people you add to your guestlist, the more people you will meet from your guestlist!

No. You can add as many guests as you like to your guestlist. We recommend adding at least three guests to increase your chances of being in a small group with your secret guests.

Your event host will let you know before each round to update your guestlist before he or she runs the connections for the next round.

Yes. You will not know how you are connected to someone in each round. They could be in your guestlist; or they could be in someone else’s guestlist as well as yours. Of course, they may be secretly interested in you – guess you will never know!

You can review everyone at the event. If the feeling is mutual, emails will be exchanged.

The number of rounds of small groups per event will depend on several factors, including the duration of the event, the number of attendees, the nature of the small group activities, and the duration of each round.

If you have added at least 3 people to your guestlist and did not get to meet any of them throughout the entire event, let your host know about it.

The duration of each small group varies depending on the event but on average, each small group activity can last from 20 – 30 minutes.

A well-charged smartphone is a requirement to participate in a Secret RSVP event.

If you arrive late to your event, simply notify the host and they will check you in so you can start viewing and adding those you are curious to meet to your secret guestlist. When the host is ready to run the next small group connection, you will be notified about which small group to join through your smartphone.

This depends on the type and nature of the event. Secret RSVP events tend to be large with at least 50 participants on the low side and up to the hundreds on the high side. However, you will always be connected with others in smaller groups that are within proportion of the overall event size with a fairly equal gender split.

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We designed Secret RSVP to be a completely offline experience for you to meet and connect with others in real life.